Hello again! I vowed to write shorter blog posts, just found myself sidetracked and not making it back, so.....here's a long update. Promise to make them short and sweet in the future.
It's hard to believe the first three months of the year is almost gone.....hmm. Many of us make new year's resolutions only to have them fizz within 3 months. Don't stop....keep going! Well, here's my 3 month check. My path is definitely zigging and zagging all over. :) Baby steps...
At New Year's, I focused on what I wanted to do with my life. It is believed that whatever you are doing when the ball drops, that is what you will be doing for the rest of the year. It was my first New year's away from my husband, Carlos. And surely, I hardly see him these days. I told myself changes were coming...some good and some not so good, but changes regardless. I'm ready to pursue all the different paths my life has spun for me. Yesterday, I made a choice to close one chapter in my life..... I know, my friends say, Cindy you give good advice and tips, but never follow it. .... so here goes. I'm going to not just share good advice, but apply it to my life as well. I think at this point in my life, I am going to put me first a little bit more often.
So, there are nine months left in the year. Hmm...which goals will be met? I have a two page list of things to do...but a list...finally that I've been putting off as life seems somewhat chaotic with my choice of priorities. I am going to say "No" a bit more often in order the reach some of these goals. I know, I love time with my grandbaby\ies and would rather play and snap shots of them, but...nothing else would get done. I guess the key is to make the time I do spend with them and family "quality time." It does feel great to scratch through on finished projects. Here goes!!!
This seems to be me...or at least that's how I believe things have been happening. lol
Seems I've gone down a few paths in life I accidentally stumbled upon, without really intending to. Anyone ever do that? Like embroidery, I fell into that trying to help my mom. I'd love to give it back if she'll take it. :) Before I started embroidering, I owned a sewing business, where I sewed and designed custom one of a kind designs like prom dresses and kid's fashions. I loved sewing one of a kind pieces for my kiddos. I did that for 10 years......I would like to get back to it with a fresh perspective and subject to sew for...meaning my grandbabies and of course, the countless gorgeous models I've befriended through my latest passion of photography.
I'm seriously thinking of closing shop on the embroidery and screenprinrting chapter of my life. Any thoughts or suggestions? I don't really market it anymore and have a few clients I keep happy. I appreciate them for their loyalty through the years. It's hard to believe I've been doing that for eighteen years!
Second, I totally enjoy putting on the bridal events....and they have grown since my first one in 2013, with so many relationships forged and so many brides we've helped, so will keep doing them. Afterall, who doesn't like to make a difference in a Happily Ever After?
Currently, I'm looking for sales reps and a power team to call my own for my Ever After Events Group... Interested? Drop me an email at wilcobride@gmail.com.
I do realize that my over all passion is marketing and advertising all I do and helping others succeed...at least that is the perspective I use for everything. I just like to include a little fun and capturing milestones along the way....and if I can help others succeed, that makes everything much better. On being trigger happy, as long as I can remember, I have always done that. There's just something about capturing a moment. Once it's gone, it is gone.. ya know?
I realize I need to slow down and focus on one thing at a time....so, that being said, I'm excited to be embarking on new path with the Modelemi Talent Agency. We have our first real team meeting tomorrow. As Director of Events and Coordinating, I can't wait to share what I've come up with.
My last passion is networking and connecting. I have pulled out of all networking for some time to figure things out for myself. My last network, B3 Network, I met some truly incredible people that I have grown to love through the years. I miss it. My friend and mentor, Mahlon Arnett, recently deceased, changed it and me. Perhaps I'll start a new network that will combine my latest two paths in Fashion and Weddings. Thinking on this .....back burner for now.
My latest project, Wilco Bride Guide has been on hold for some time, but I'm happy to say I am making progress on that. I am currently building my team. Interested in owrking with Wilco Bride Guide? Drop me an email at wilcobride@gmail.com. Let's connect vendors and brides and help tha path to Happily Ever After a positive and memorable journey.
I think I'll focus on the 9 months still left to work on attainable goals I've committed to in the new year. How defined are your goals? Keep in mind, there is no straight line to get to your destination, just keep going!
This year opens up new doors or opportunities. I'm excited to share all the I am working on. Of course, there is the importance of priorities. I don't want my family to feel I am "working all the time." So, setting up a plan is extra important. What is YOUR best tactic in defining this year's focus? Please share.
Make it a GREAT rest of the year! Hugs
Cindy Ann
